Brian Nelson-Palmer 11/30/25 Brian Nelson-Palmer 11/30/25

Should You Quit Social Media? Don't Fall For These Excuses. Here's The System To Do It Better.

Social media isn’t just stealing your time — it’s draining your focus and fueling your stress. In this deeper dive sparked by my conversation with focus expert Penny Zenker, I break down the hidden productivity costs of scrolling, what the research says, and how you can reclaim your attention without quitting cold turkey.

Bottom Line Up Front: Don't quit social media. Quit scrolling social media.

Published: June 2025. — Updated: Nov 2025

I've spent months researching this question, debating with experts on both sides, and analyzing studies covering over 100,000 employees. Here's what the data actually shows: strategic, time-constrained social media use creates measurable career advantages through professional networks and visibility. But uncontrolled use causes devastating cognitive, sleep, and mental health costs.

The solution isn't deletion. It's a complete operational restructure of how you interact with platforms.

This started with a question I've been asking for over a decade.
Since 2014, I've kicked off my time management workshops the same way: "What's your biggest time waster or time suck?" Without fail, “Social Media” wins by a landslide. Every. Single. Time.

Then I had two conversations that changed everything.

First, I debated with focus expert Penny Zenker about whether people should actually quit social media. We both agreed: get off. Then I felt like I needed to hear the other side, so I sat down with social media marketing expert Corey Perlman, who runs campaigns for 50+ companies and has seen both the business value and the personal costs.

What emerged from these debates wasn't a simple yes or no answer. It was something more nuanced: a research-backed system that preserves the documented professional benefits while eliminating the productivity costs.

Spoiler alert: The solution isn't about willpower or excuses. It's about completely restructuring how you interact with these platforms.

I researched and fact-checked them all. Here's how I'm going to present the results below:

Some background on why this matters (and why the algorithms are literally designed to beat you)
Every excuse I've heard, what the research actually says, and what works better
The research-backed system that changes everything

Some Background

Why This Matters for Your Productivity

The algorithms are smarter than you. They're literally designed to keep you scrolling using slot machine psychology. You never know when that next dopamine hit is coming, so you keep scrolling.

The Documented Costs Are Severe:

Time Loss Is Accelerating - In the UK, adults averaged 4 hours and 20 minutes online per day in 2024, up approximately 1 hour year-over-year, with social platforms consuming a major share.

Attention Gets Systematically Destroyed - Every time you bounce from deep work to check your feed, it takes 23 minutes to refocus. You think you're multitasking - you're actually task-switching, which makes you slower and more error-prone at everything.

Task Switching Leaves "Attention Residue" - When you switch to a new task, part of your cognitive capacity remains stuck on the prior one, and performance drops. Social media check-ins are frequent micro-switches that accumulate cognitive residue throughout your workday.

Sleep Quality Takes A Measurable Hit - Research links in-bed phone and social media use with shorter sleep duration and higher insomnia risk. Content engagement (not just blue light) appears to be the bigger driver of sleep disturbance.

Mental Health Risk Clusters With Heavy Use - 43% of adults say checking social media stresses them out. Yet they keep doing it anyway.

My Perspective on This

Full transparency: I'm coming at this from both sides. I use these platforms personally and run a business that markets through them. I've lived the creator hustle, felt the algorithm anxiety, and experienced both the highs of viral content and the lows of posting into the void.

But here's what changed my perspective: I realized I was confusing two completely different types of social media use.

Influencer Marketing (likes, followers, engagement volume) vs. Business Marketing (DMs, website clicks, phone calls).
As Corey put it: 'If you're not an influencer, your goals are NOT about likes and shares and saves, they're about DMs, website clicks, and phone calls.'

Most professionals are judging their social media success by influencer metrics while trying to achieve business outcomes. That's like measuring your car's performance with a recipe - you're using the wrong measuring tool entirely.

The problem isn't the tool - it's that we're using entertainment platforms for professional goals without understanding the difference. Social media has real benefits: networking, weak-tie professional connections, and strategic visibility. But most of us aren't using it strategically. We're just scrolling.

Who This Is For

If you're using social media for "networking" or "staying informed" and finding it drains your time and energy, this system is for you.

If you're a business professional who knows you need social media presence but hate how much time it consumes, this is definitely for you. You'll learn how to maintain professional visibility without the productivity costs.

If your paycheck depends on social media and you're a creator, community manager, or social media marketer, this isn't telling you to quit your job. But the research about sustainable usage, burnout prevention, and mental health impacts will help you work more strategically and protect your wellbeing long-term.

The key insight: Whether you're using social media personally or professionally, the goal is the same - get the benefits while eliminating the documented costs to your attention, sleep, and mental health.

So let's bust some myths. I'll walk you through every excuse I've heard, what the research says, and what works better.

The Benefits of Social Media (Yes, They Exist)

Before I tear apart every excuse, let me be honest: social media does have genuine benefits. Dismissing them would be disingenuous, and I'd probably lose all my credibility with you.

Sometimes it actually saves lives. During Hurricane Helene (which I lived through), social media provided real-time updates that were genuinely life-saving. When the power's out and traditional news is down, those Facebook posts and neighborhood groups become your lifeline.

It connects people who can't connect anywhere else. People with rare diseases find their tribe. Artists discover audiences they'd never reach otherwise. My wife and I moved twice in one year - Facebook Marketplace saved us thousands on furniture.

Professional weak ties create measurable career advantage. Research analyzing billions of LinkedIn connections found that moderately weak ties increased job mobility significantly more than close contacts. For me, when I meet hundreds of people at conferences, LinkedIn beats collecting business cards every time.

The buyers are actually online during business hours. Most companies permit LinkedIn on work computers while restricting entertainment platforms. Your professional visibility during work hours - when decisions get made - happens disproportionately on LinkedIn.

But here's the big question: Are you actually using social media for these benefits? Or are you just... scrolling?

So let's talk about those excuses...

Why These 'Excuses' Are Actually Valid Goals - Done All Wrong

I realized most "excuses" for staying on social media are actually legitimate professional and personal goals. The problem isn't the goal - it's using the wrong tool to achieve it.

The breakthrough insight: Don't quit social media. Quit scrolling social media. Focus on creating and strategic engagement, eliminate mindless consumption.

Here's each "excuse," why it's actually valid, and the research-backed way to achieve that goal without the productivity costs:

"I Need It to Stay Connected" & Social Excuses

These excuses also sound like:

"It's how I stay in touch with friends and family."
"That's how my generation communicates."
"Everyone uses it. I'll be left out."
"I need to support friends going through tough times."

Here's what the research actually shows:

Passive social media makes relationships weaker, not stronger. Public reactions (you "liked" their post) provide almost zero emotional benefit to people in crisis. 25% of adults have quit social media without any social consequences. People who quit report stronger, more meaningful connections within weeks.

The connection you're seeking is real - you're just using the wrong tool to get it.

What works better:

Replace likes with actual phone calls and direct messages. Video calls would be even better. Or record a video of yourself talking to them and send it directly!

Use social media only as a logistics tool, like finding someone's contact info, then communicate directly.

Focus on your closest 5-15 relationships instead of maintaining hundreds of superficial connections.

Real talk:

When I moved to Tampa from DC, I messaged old contacts I hadn't spoken to in almost 20 years. Only a third responded, but we picked up exactly where we left off. Real relationships survive without constant social media maintenance.

"I Need It for Work" & Business Excuses

These excuses also sound like:

"Everyone in my field uses LinkedIn."
"I need it to promote my business."
"I have to stay current with industry trends."
"It's networking."

Here's what the research actually shows:

Email marketing delivers 4,200% ROI while social media generates as low as 0.9% conversion rates. Workplace productivity drops 13-15% with unrestricted social media access. Most "work" social media use is actually personal browsing in disguise. And get this...nearly 50% of your "engagement" comes from bots, not real humans.

But here's the key insight: You're measuring business social media success with influencer metrics. If you're not an influencer, your goals are not about likes and shares and saves, they're about DMs, website clicks, and phone calls.

What works better:

Schedule posts in weekly batches. Use LinkedIn like a digital business card. Update it quarterly, engage meaningfully, then get off.

Invest in email marketing ($42 return per $1 spent) and face-to-face networking.

Focus on conversion metrics, not vanity metrics. Track direct messages that convert to calls, website clicks, and qualified leads - ignore “like” counts completely.

Reality check:

A very successful speaker I know told me, "I've made millions in my career. 95% came from referrals. Only 5% came from social media." He wasn't against social media, just realistic about proportionally where to spend his time.

"I Need to Stay Informed" & Info Excuses

These excuses also sound like:

"I need to stay current with news."
"What if something important happens?"
"I follow educational accounts."
"It's for research and learning."

Here's what the research actually shows:

Social media gives you shallow, fragmented information that feels like learning but isn't. Algorithms prioritize engagement over accuracy. Educational content mixed with entertainment actually hurts learning retention.

The information you're seeking is real - social media is just a terrible way to get it.

What works better:

Pick 1-2 reputable news sources and check once daily. Use AI for research. It'll search Google Scholar and academic sources for you.

Try dedicated learning apps instead of educational social media accounts.

Replace your social media news feed with focused newsletters. Choose one local, one national, and one specialized newsletter that covers your specific interests without the algorithm manipulation.

Personal confession:

“But I need it to stay informed!” was my excuse for years. Now I get all my news from three 5-minute newsletters:
Local News in my city: Axios Local
National News: Morning Brew
Political News: Tangle

I feel more informed than when I was doom-scrolling for "news." The difference? These newsletters give me actual information without the engagement-driven outrage and distraction.

"It's Just Entertainment" & Boredom Excuses

These excuses also sound like:

"It's just entertainment."
"I'm bored otherwise."
"I only look at funny content."

Here's what the research actually shows:

Social media "entertainment" is designed to be addictive, not genuinely enjoyable. Those algorithms mix funny videos with engagement-driving content to keep you scrolling. Users actually report lower satisfaction from social media compared to books, movies, or hobbies.

And here's the kicker about boredom:

It's actually a superpower. Boredom improves creativity and problem-solving. Ever notice how your best ideas come in the shower or while driving? That's your unstimulated brain doing its thing.

What works better:

Choose intentional entertainment - comedy specials instead of TikTok videos, books instead of Instagram stories.

Learn to let your mind wander for 5-minute periods. You'll be amazed what happens when you're not constantly stimulated.

Replace the scrolling habit with something that actually entertains you rather than just occupying your attention.

The entertainment you're seeking is real - but social media gives you the mental equivalent of junk food when you could have a real meal.

"It Helps Me Relax" & Sleep Excuses

These excuses also sound like:

"I use it to wind down."
"I use it at night when I can't fall asleep."
"My phone is my alarm clock, so I need it in bed."

Here's what the research actually shows:

Social media increases stress hormones and mental stimulation. Blue light disrupts sleep cycles.

Screen time before bed makes insomnia worse, not better.

Research shows that content engagement (not just blue light exposure) appears to be the bigger driver of sleep disturbance. Your brain stays activated by the social interactions and information processing.

What works better:

Read fiction, listen to sleep podcasts (try "Nothing Much Happens"), or practice meditation for actual relaxation. And yes, you can get a real alarm clock - they still make those.

Implement a 60-90 minute digital sundown. Remove all devices from bedroom completely.

Personal confession:

I used the “but my phone is my alarm clock, I must have it in bed,” excuse for 10 years. Recently, I implemented a strict rule: NO PHONE IN BED. Ever.

The results shocked me: I sleep 45 minutes more per night according to my tracker. I fall asleep faster and stay asleep better. When I'm in bed, my only job is sleeping. I also spend less time in bed overall.

My setup now: Apple Watch vibrates me awake gently (wife sleeps through it). Backup alarm clock across the room forces me to actually get up. Revolutionary concept, I know.

"What if my wife/kids/family calls?" This is the most common worry, especially for parents. Here's how it works for me: 1) My wife is in my "favorites," and those calls bypass “focus mode” and “sleep mode” so my phone still rings, anytime day or night. 2) When my phone rings/vibrates, my watch vibrates too, so I get the call and can answer it from my watch.
For you, if emergency calls are frequent, keep the phone across the room or just outside the bedroom door. Don't let this excuse keep it on your nightstand.

“It’s Not A Big Deal” Excuses

The excuses sound like this:

"I only check it a few times a day."
"Everyone else uses it more."
"At least I don't have real addictions."
"I can stop anytime."

Here's what the research actually shows:

Heavy users underestimate their usage by 200-300%. Most people check social media 50-100+ times daily while thinking it's "just a few times." Behavioral addictions use the same brain pathways as substance addictions. Saying "I can quit anytime" without actually trying is classic addiction behavior.

The average person now spends 4+ hours daily on social platforms. That's not a few minutes - that's a part-time job's worth of time.

Reality check:

Comparing your usage to others is like saying "I'm only jumping off a smaller cliff." You're still jumping off a cliff.

What works better:

Turn on screen time tracking to see your real numbers. Set actual limits. Want to prove you're not addicted? Take a 2-week break. If it's easy, you'll prove your point. If it's hard... well, you'll have some valuable information about yourself.

Access it from your phone browser instead of the app. Use tools like #blockit (for Safari) or News Feed Eradicator (Chrome) to eliminate newsfeeds while keeping the ability to check notifications and direct messages.

The goal isn't to shame yourself - it's to get honest about the actual time cost so you can make an informed decision.

What To Do Instead

The 15-Minute Daily Social Media System That Protects Your Focus

Full transparency: I still have all my social media accounts. I'm not telling you to delete everything and become a digital hermit. But after debating with experts and analyzing the research, I've completely restructured how I interact with these platforms.

A professional using his cellphone — *Photo from* *Pexels*

Here's the 8-step system that preserves professional benefits while eliminating productivity costs:

1. Eliminate Default Interruptions (Non-Negotiable)
Turn off all non-human notifications (likes, follows, algorithmic recommendations). Batch direct messages into 1-2 daily check windows. Expected result: Immediate reduction in cognitive load; measurable improvement in sustained attention within 48 hours.

2. Replace Infinite Feeds With Intentional Access
No more apps, access these sites only through browsers, and use feed-blocking browser extensions (Block It for Safari, News Feed Eradicator for Chrome). Access your interests only via direct navigation to specific profiles. The algorithmic feed is an attention trap, not a tool.

3. Time-Box Social Media To A Daily Quota

15 minutes daily: Engagement with other people's content
15 minutes weekly: Connection request management
20-30 minutes weekly: Content creation (away from platforms)
Total weekly maximum: 2-2.5 hours

4. Separate Content Creation From Consumption (Critical)
Draft all content in offline editors. Record videos without opening platforms. Use scheduling tools or delegate posting. Your job is to create content. Then either schedule it to post, or let someone else post it."

5. Protect Sleep With A 60-90 Minute Digital Sundown Remove all devices from bedroom. Establish firm 60-90 minute screen-free buffer before target sleep time. If evening reading is required, use e-ink devices or physical books only. Expected result: Measurable improvement in sleep onset and quality within 1 week.

6. Prioritize LinkedIn For Professional Hours; Archive Entertainment Platforms
LinkedIn: Primary professional platform; post during business hours; engage during scheduled windows.
Instagram/TikTok: Only if target demographic is consumer-focused; use paid targeting for reach; never organic scroll.
Facebook: Personal connections only; irrelevant for most B2B professional goals.

7. Measure Conversion Metrics, Never Vanity Metrics
Track only: Direct messages that convert to calls, website clicks from social referral traffic, email signups attributed to social presence.
Ignore completely: Like counts, share volume, follower growth rate, engagement percentages.

8. Use Paid Amplification Surgically
B2C/Consumer focus: Budget $200-500/month for targeted Instagram/Facebook promotion.
B2B/Professional focus: Invest in LinkedIn Sales Navigator ($79.99/month); keep ads minimal.
Always target narrow, qualified audiences rather than broad reach.
Base your success on conversion metrics like in #7, not vanity metrics.

The result? I don't feel deprived. I feel in control. Total weekly platform exposure: 60-100 minutes instead of 4+ hours daily.

The Plug-And-Play Weekly Schedule

This schedule aligns with interruption reduction evidence and network maintenance requirements:

Monday (15 minutes) Comment thoughtfully on 5 VIPs' LinkedIn posts.
Corey brought this one up in our discussion, and it really struck me, SO SMART. Focus on leaving genuine comments (not just Likes") that builds name recognition of you with that person. This signals to both the person and the algorithm that you're connected, increasing likelihood they see your future content. This helps them start to recognize your name.
Wednesday (20-30 minutes) Draft next week's post and short video content.
Complete this entirely away from social platforms - in Google Docs, Notes, or wherever you can write without feed exposure. Schedule post for optimal timing or send to posting assistant.
Friday (15 minutes) Process all direct messages to inbox zero.
Move qualified leads to calendar for calls or into email for follow-up. Archive or dismiss everything else.
Daily (5-10 minutes, single scheduled window) Check notifications and respond to urgent direct messages only. No feed access. Set timer; exit when time expires.

Total weekly platform exposure: 60-100 minutes Total weekly time investment including content creation: 2-2.5 hours maximum

Compare this to the 4+ hours daily that average users spend on social platforms.

But Still…Influencers Make Money…

Understanding Why Most Professionals Shouldn't Follow The Influencer Model

I get it. After everything I've said, you're still thinking about it. The Instagram stars, the YouTube success stories, the TikTok millionaires. It looks so appealing from the outside.

You're looking at two completely different business models with different success metrics, and mixing them up WILL BURN YOU OUT.

Influencer marketing success requires:

Likes, followers, engagement volume as primary metrics
Full-time content creation (often 40+ hours per week)
Constant platform presence and trend-chasing
Revenue from sponsorships, brand deals, and affiliate marketing

Business/professional marketing success requires:

Direct messages, website clicks, phone calls as primary metrics
Strategic, limited content creation (2-3 hours per week max)
Focused presence during business hours
Revenue from your actual products, services, or expertise

Trust me, I fell for it too. When I started Productivity Gladiator, I tried to be everywhere: Twitter, LinkedIn, Facebook, Instagram, Threads, TikTok, YouTube. I spent hours every week trying to crack the algorithm code. After months of this exhausting routine, I'd made exactly $0 from social media toward my business.

Then I got smart and focused. I kept LinkedIn (where my actual customers look for me) and YouTube for longer content. Everything else? Just billboards now - there to direct people where to find me, posted every few weeks to show I'm still around.

Here's the research that backs up why focusing on business metrics instead of influencer metrics is the smarter choice:

90% of social media influencers experience burnout - nearly double the rate of traditional workers. The financial reality is even harsher: 71% of creators earn less than $30,000 annually, and only 12% make more than $50,000.

Most creator careers flame out in just 5-7 years, with creators living in constant anxiety about algorithm changes that can wipe out their income overnight.

Meanwhile, people who focus on real relationship-building report significantly higher satisfaction and financial security. The scariest part? There are virtually no long-term studies tracking what happens to influencers after they burn out.

Here's another telling sign: I've never heard of a retirement party for a social media influencer. At my first job, I noticed no one was retiring - everyone either quit or got fired. That was a clear sign it wasn't a good long-term place to be. I'm seeing the same pattern with influencer careers.

The results from my strategic approach? The last three years, my business has grown significantly year over year. Not from viral posts (I had some of those too, but they don't generate $) or follower counts, but from real people who know and trust me. The upward trend continues based on my own control and effort. It feels sustainable for the long haul.

Instead, I invested all that time and effort in real networking - phone calls, actual conversations, joining the National Speakers Association, building genuine relationships with measurable business outcomes.

Final Thought: Use Social Media, Don’t Get Used…

Social media isn't evil - but it is engineered to waste your time and make money for everyone except you.

Think about it: The creators make money. The platforms make MORE money. The advertisers do it because they end up making money. You spend the MOST time on it and make... nothing.

But the strategic approach changes everything. When you separate creation from consumption, measure conversion instead of engagement, and time-box your usage, you flip the equation. Now you're using these platforms as tools to achieve your professional and personal goals instead of being used by them for their revenue goals.

Here's what really drives this home: An Australian hospice nurse named Bronnie Ware spent years documenting the final regrets of dying patients.

The top regret? "I wish I'd had the courage to live a life true to myself, not the life others expected of me."
The second most common? "I wish I didn't work so hard."

Notice what's NOT on that list? "I wish I'd spent more time on social media." No one on their deathbed regrets missing viral videos or not getting enough likes.

Your attention is currency. And if you're not budgeting it strategically, someone else is spending it for you.

So don't quit social media. Quit scrolling social media. Use the 15-minute daily system. Focus on building real relationships and achieving measurable outcomes. Time is the currency of your life...spend it wisely.

This is part of a SERIES on SOCIAL MEDIA ADDICTION:

PART 1 - How Many Hours Do You Spend On Social Media?
PART 2 - Free Hacks To Fix It
PART 3 - Fix It With Apps And Tech Hacks
FINALE - Should You Quit Social Media? Don't Fall For These Excuses. Here's The System To Do It Better.
(*You’re Reading This One)

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I’m Brian. At age 4, I was diagnosed with insulin dependent (type 1) diabetes and told that my life was going to be 10-20 years shorter than everyone else. As a kid I took time for granted, but now as an adult, time is the most precious thing that I have. After spending a career hands-on in the trenches as a leader at all levels, I now train Productivity Gladiators to level up their careers. Graduates wield superpowers in time management, practical leadership, communication, & productivity. If what you’ve seen here intrigues you, reach out, let’s chat!

“Time is the currency of your life, spend it wisely.”

Brian Nelson-Palmer 8/24/21 Brian Nelson-Palmer 8/24/21

How Many Hours Do You Spend On Social Media?

How much time do you spend on social media?

It’s time to get specific, how much time do you spend on social media? These days your phone will tell you. Do it right now.

So…let’s set some time limits for you, right now….

Social Media Addiction Series: Part 1

“Share your biggest time waster or time suck,” is the first activity we do in my workshop on the value of your time. “Social media” is the most common answer…by a landslide. Do you get that feeling too? Is it a struggle for you as well? If so, you’re not alone. During COVID-19, hundreds of people each month found my blog posts through internet searches on Social Media Addiction. Let’s discuss one of the first steps in improving your relationship with social media.

Acknowledgement: I recognize some people may need to spend more time on social media for business or other reasons. This is meant to help anyone who is interested in taking back the power in their relationship with social media.

Social media has been a struggle for me for years.

I was part of the very first wave of people to have a Facebook profile as Facebook expanded to more universities. I had a “.edu” email when it first launched so I was “in” back in 2004. I distinctly remember sitting in my room at Florida State University and registering for my Facebook profile, and marveling at this new way to spend my time online. Ever since then, social media has proven to be a constant struggle for people; constantly comparing ourselves to others, needing to see what others are doing, and getting lost in the ether of the scrolling. It’s not healthy. I have spent years trying to get better at it. Also, for me, I consider my time valuable, and all that time spent on social media platforms feels lost. I don’t tend to feel better when I spend hours of my time on social media. I’ve tried quite a few approaches, and I feel good about my relationship with (or really the lack of) social media in my life these days. I want you to feel better about your relationship with social media as well.

How much time do you spend on social media?

It’s time to get specific, how much time do you spend on social media? These days your phone will tell you. Do it right now.

iPhone, iPad, iPod Touch

To see screen time, go to Settings > Screen Time > tap See All Activity under the graph.

To set app limits, Settings > Screen Time > App Limits, then tap Add Limit. To set limits for individual apps, tap the category name to see all the apps in that category, then select the apps you want to limit.

Android/Google/Samsung

To track screen time, go to Settings > Digital Wellbeing & parental controls > menu > Manage your data > toggle on Daily device usage.

To set app timers, open Digital Wellbeing & parental controls > Dashboard > select app > tap hourglass icon > set a time limit > OK

So…how many hours do YOU spend on social media?

Do you know the number? I want you to know the number. You need a starting point. Go on your phone as described above and add up the average daily time you spend on all of the social media platforms that keep you sucked in and scrolling or watching other recommended content specifically. I don’t loop in messaging apps in this - communicating with others is different to me. I’m talking about Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, Snapchat, TikTok, etc. I have a hunch you know exactly which ones I’m referring to. My total when I first started this journey was 2+ hours per day.

Okay, so how much time on social media is a healthy amount?

10 minutes per application and a total of 30 minutes per day. That recommendation comes from a University of Pennsylvania study. I have tried different amounts of time based on recommendations and research, and for me, I agree with this as a good amount of time to shoot for.

So…let’s set some time limits for you, right now.

The most common problem is that people don’t have any limits. We get sucked in, and there’s nothing to indicate or remind us how long we have been scrolling. Social media platforms control our time, instead of us controlling the time spent on social media! It’s your life, you control it, don’t leave it up to the app. You can tailor the limit to your needs, but don’t just wing it. Go set some limits on your phone right now, and see how you do. I recommend 10 minutes per app and 30 minutes per day total as a guide and a goal to work toward. If you spend more than an hour on social media per day currently, I recommend coming down in increments of 20-30 minutes per week, since “quitting cold turkey” might not work for everyone. Along that journey, I’m confident you’ll find the balance that works for you.

Wait, this whole post was just about your phone, what about all your other devices? There’s More!

This is part of a SERIES on SOCIAL MEDIA ADDICTION

PART 1 - How Many Hours Do You Spend On Social Media?
(**You’re Reading This One)
PART 2 - Free Hacks To Fix It
PART 3 - Fix It With Apps And Tech Hacks
FINALE - Should You Quit Social Media? Don't Fall For These Excuses. Here's The System To Do It Better.

I’m Brian. At age 4, I was diagnosed with insulin dependent (type 1) diabetes and told that my life was going to be 10-20 years shorter than everyone else. Time is precious. I created Productivity Gladiator because I saw what a difference it made to share small and specific actions you can take right now, right away, to achieve better work life balance, be more productive, and live your best life right now, today, not wait until retirement. I want you to start doing the things you WANT to do, not get stuck only chasing what you NEED to do. If any of this resonates with you, I hope you’ll subscribe, and if you’re so inclined, send me a note. It brings me joy sharing Productivity Gladiator with you.

Brian Nelson-Palmer 4/23/19 Brian Nelson-Palmer 4/23/19

Addiction To Social Media: Fix It With Apps and Tech Hacks

The good news is, technology and apps are being developed to help you keep social media under control.

Here are some of the apps and tech hacks you can use to help rein it in.

Social Media Addiction Series: Part 3

Updated 10/5/21: Removed app “Feedless” since the app is no longer on the ios app store, replaced with #Blockit which does the same thing even better

In Part 1 and Part 2 of this series, we started discussing this issue, now we continue with more solutions! Don’t miss the Finale after this

The good news is, technology and apps are being developed to help you keep social media under control.

Here are some of the apps and tech hacks you can use to help rein it in. If you haven’t already, before we dive in here, we recommend you take just a few minutes to read or refresh your memory on our last posts

1. #blockit, iOS app (alternatives available for other systems), Free

If you didn’t try the first hack in our other post, do it now, delete the social apps from your phone and try this free app. #blockit is a content blocker for iOS that removes the entire feed, stories, and other things from facebook when viewing it in your mobile safari browser. At the time of this writing, it did not work for the Chrome browser on iPhone, only the Safari browser, so I just am in the habit of using Safari whenever I check anything social media. This app allows people to still access Facebook’s core features like checking notifications and logging in to websites with your Facebook account while removing the newsfeed completely from the screen so you’re never sucked in to checking it! I love this hack, as it allows me to still check my notifications, but once that’s done, there’s nothing else distracting to see, so I just naturally move on to more important things. I find I’m only on facebook about once a day thanks to this app! This app works for Instagram, youtube, Twitter, and more, it works on one for free or you get them all for a one time $5 charge.

2. Chrome Desktop Extensions, Free

A Chrome extension that eradicates the newsfeed and replacing it with inspiring quotes instead. There are other eradicator apps like this one, such as Distraction Free Youtube which eliminates the recommended videos on the right side of youtube. If you look, you’ll find many more of these for many of the other big sites many people get sucked into.

Another helpful Chrome extension is StayFocusd, it’s a productivity extension that allows you to place your own time limits for how long each day you can spend on time-wasting websites. After your time is up, it makes the site inaccessible for the rest of the day and your screen will simply say something along the lines of “Shouldn’t You Be Working?” in big text across the screen.

Newsfeed Eradicator Screen (left) & StayFocusd Screen (right)

3. Freedom App - Set Limits on all Devices

This is one of the all encompassing options. They describe it: ”Stop being distracted by your computer. Freedom is the app and website blocker for Mac, Windows, Android, and iOS, used by over 750,000 people to reclaim focus and productivity. Experience the freedom to do what matters most.”
For those who just can’t help themselves, and need a more all-encompassing solution that covers all their devices, Freedom is the next step.

4. Scheduling Your Social Media Posting

If you’re using social media for business, fresh content and keeping people engaged is important. With apps like the below which allow you to schedule your posts, you can log on only once or twice a week or even once a month depending on your content. Simply schedule all your posts, and then go back to more important things with the rest of your time.

For Facebook, try Facebook’s post scheduling feature. This enables you to save draft posts and schedule them for the future.
Note: Facebook changed it’s API in 2018 to reduce the utility of other services like the one’s below, so I recommend doing your facebook scheduling in facebook itself.

For other social media sources, like Instragram, Twitter, Linkedin, etc, you have Buffer and Hootsuite. These platforms allow you to schedule posts and even monitor conversations and analyze the performance of your social media account as well. Batch your time spent on social media through the use of these apps, to get back to other more important things, like your work, and your life!

Discipline yourself and take control of what you do with your smartphones and computers. Escape from social media entanglement. I’m leaving you with this quote from Alan Lakein, on personal time management, “Time equals life; therefore, waste your time and waste of your life, or master your time and master your life.” Time is an investment, spend it with discernment.”

This is part of a SERIES on SOCIAL MEDIA ADDICTION

PART 1 - How Many Hours Do You Spend On Social Media?
PART 2 - Free Hacks To Fix It
PART 3 - Fix It With Apps And Tech Hacks
(*You’re Reading This One)
FINALE - Should You Quit Social Media? Don't Fall For These Excuses. Here's The System To Do It Better.

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Addiction to Social Media & Free Hacks To Fix It

“Wait, I just spent 45 minutes on Facebook? Instragram?”

For many, social media has become a habit, and the longer they stick with that habit, the harder it is to break. For some, it becomes an unhealthy addiction or an unfortunate obsession. Are you a constant social media checker? In your leisure time at home? At work? On school breaks? While in line at the grocery store? While eating? While in the bathroom?

So what can you do? Here’s life hacks to get you started!

SOCIAL MEDIA ADDICTION SERIES: PART 2

“Wait, I just spent 45 minutes on Facebook? Instragram?”

In Part 1 of this series, we talked about just about smart phones, now in this Part 2, Part 3, & The Finale let’s look at the issue overall across all your devices.

Found at Digital Information World — *Found at* *Digital Information World*

Statistics from GWI in a report by the Digital Information World show that internet users are now spending an average of 2 hours and 22 minutes daily on messaging platforms and social networking applications. In a year, that’s a total of 863 hours!

Expand over a decade and that means the average person spent 8,630 hours on it during that time. If there’s 8,760 hours in a year, that means…

That’s one FULL YEAR spent on social media out of your last 10 years?!

Let’s assign some value to that time. Did you use the calculator in our earlier post and calculate how much your personal time is worth? If it’s $10/hr that means you spent $86,630 worth of your personal time on social media?

If you value your personal time at $25/hr, that’s $215,750 worth of your time you spend on social media over the last 10 years?!

That doesn’t even count the “opportunity cost” of the life experiences you missed out on during those hours. The best memories of the last decade likely haven’t involved the times you were on social media! How many real conversations could you have had with this time? How many games could you have played with your kids? How many dates could you have been on? How many romantic moments could you have had? Happy hours? Family movie nights? How much money could you have made if you picked up a side hustle instead?

Now this isn’t saying you should quit social media all together, though I support and admire those who do, and they often seem happier not to be on it! I’ve heard so many people in my workshops talk about how much they need it. “But I have to use it.” I hear you! For some it’s work. For others it’s family. For some it’s for a specific project. Social media is helpful and advantageous in many ways, but the time you consume for it is the problem, and it’s not too late to find solutions to that.

So what can you do? Here’s life hacks to get you started!

Productivity Gladiator is all about action. Here’s specific actions you can take right now to help get it under control. Start with one of these, then do another, then another, find the solutions that work for you, where you feel like you’re back in control. I recommend trying all of these below. Start at the top and try that one for a week, then try the next one. Once you’ve tried them all, you should have a combination of one or more that gets you to a better place where you feel in control. These are behavioral hacks you can change now, now costs or apps needed. In the next post we’ll share other apps and software to add another layer to your management of this time suck.

Turn off all of the notifications on all your devices.
Yep, your phone, your computer, your watch, your tablet, ALL OF THEM. This loosens social media’s constant nagging, “check me!” Now you’re back in control, it’s up to you when you check it, and won’t bother you when you don’t.
Uninstall the social media apps from your phone.
This way you must use the browser to access social media. The experience isn’t as good on the mobile browser, so it’s not as easy to lose track of time, it helps make you slightly more aware of the time you’re spending.
Sign out of your account every time you’re done,
Now you always have to sign in to access the social media sites. It’s the extra moment which makes you think about what you’re going to do.
Use an “incognito” or “private” browser window, on both your phone and on your desktop. Most people aren’t good at remembering to log out each time, and this way the computer won’t remember you’re logged in, and you’ll have to go through the act of logging in each time, which will make you pause and think about what you’re doing.
Change your password to something AWFUL.
This way each time you’re logging on, you’ll have to think and type that phrase, such as “IMworthlessONsocials” or “1kittenisdyingbecauseofme!” or “IMbetterTHANthisUGH” or much worse! BE AGGRESSIVE! BE MEAN! YOU NEED TO THE REMINDER!
Use an actual alarm clock instead of your phone.
In the morning, laying in bed. That’s the biggest time many of us fall into social media without meaning too. Avoid that completely. Get an alarm clock, maybe even one of the ones with a light that slowly gets brighter! I haven’t tried it, but something like this one could be an option?

Most importantly, if you find you’re unable to take any of the above steps, or it’s not making any difference, it may be time to talk to someone about this, a professional or therapist. There are real problems of addiction and depression that can come from social media. The Anxiety and Depression Association of America delves deeper into this. Please read, be self-aware, and seek help. It’s important! This is about the life you’re actually living, and you only get one of those, so prioritize that over social media!

Don’t stop here! This is part of a series on Social Media Addiction:

PART 1 - How Many Hours Do You Spend On Social Media?
PART 2 - Free Hacks To Fix It
(*You’re Reading This One)
PART 3 - Fix It With Apps And Tech Hacks
FINALE - Should You Quit Social Media? Don't Fall For These Excuses. Here's The System To Do It Better.

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Should You Quit Social Media? Don't Fall For These Excuses. Here's The System To Do It Better.

Some Background

Why This Matters for Your Productivity

My Perspective on This

Who This Is For

The Benefits of Social Media (Yes, They Exist)

Why These 'Excuses' Are Actually Valid Goals - Done All Wrong

"I Need It to Stay Connected" & Social Excuses

"I Need It for Work" & Business Excuses

"I Need to Stay Informed" & Info Excuses

"It's Just Entertainment" & Boredom Excuses

"It Helps Me Relax" & Sleep Excuses

“It’s Not A Big Deal” Excuses

What To Do Instead

The 15-Minute Daily Social Media System That Protects Your Focus

Here's the 8-step system that preserves professional benefits while eliminating productivity costs:

The Plug-And-Play Weekly Schedule

But Still…Influencers Make Money…

Understanding Why Most Professionals Shouldn't Follow The Influencer Model

Final Thought: Use Social Media, Don’t Get Used…

References

How Many Hours Do You Spend On Social Media?

How much time do you spend on social media?

So…let’s set some time limits for you, right now….

Social Media Addiction Series: Part 1

Social media has been a struggle for me for years.

How much time do you spend on social media?

So…how many hours do YOU spend on social media?

Okay, so how much time on social media is a healthy amount?

So…let’s set some time limits for you, right now.

Addiction To Social Media: Fix It With Apps and Tech Hacks

Social Media Addiction Series: Part 3

Addiction to Social Media & Free Hacks To Fix It

SOCIAL MEDIA ADDICTION SERIES: PART 2

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